Holidays in Florida

(00:58:50) kierythebetrayed: fuck women
(00:58:55) ROzBeans: what did she do?
(00:59:14) kierythebetrayed: did I tell you about new year's eve?
(01:00:27) ROzBeans: no kiss, nothing
(01:00:35) kierythebetrayed: oh
(01:00:44) kierythebetrayed: I didn't mention that she called Gary at 12:00?
(01:00:51) ROzBeans: lol nice
(01:01:07) kierythebetrayed: and told him to kiss the phone, then looked over her shoulder and said happy new year to me
(01:01:13) kierythebetrayed: then
(01:01:41) kierythebetrayed: last weekend she drove to NY to pick him up and he just went home on Monday
(01:01:56) ROzBeans: please tell me you told her to fuck off
(01:02:26) kierythebetrayed: she called me up the monday after she picked him up and I didn't answer.. she left me a voicemail asking if the three of us could hang out while he was down
(01:02:48) kierythebetrayed: I said, "have fun with Gary, I don't want to butt in"
(01:02:57) kierythebetrayed: so she didn't call me for a week
(01:03:01) ROzBeans: fucking cow
(01:03:06) kierythebetrayed: so I sent her a text message asking how radiation was going
(01:03:15) kierythebetrayed: this was monday of this week
(01:03:36) kierythebetrayed: she responded on tuesday saying Gary had just left and that I was welcome to go with her to a radiation appointment if I wanted to
(01:03:42) kierythebetrayed: ...
(01:03:45) ROzBeans: you didnt, right?
(01:03:48) kierythebetrayed: fuck that
(01:04:06) ROzBeans: you're her girlfriend, that's how she sees you
(01:04:11) kierythebetrayed: I sent her a text message telling her I wanted a CD and some books that I let her borrow back
(01:04:21) kierythebetrayed: she called me up and yelled at me, telling me it was immature
(01:04:26) kierythebetrayed: so I hung up on her
(01:04:28) kierythebetrayed: three times
(01:04:31) kierythebetrayed: fuck her
(01:04:42) ROzBeans: you're immature?
(01:04:44) kierythebetrayed: yeah
(01:04:45) kierythebetrayed: really
(01:04:48) ROzBeans: oh nice
(01:04:51) ROzBeans: well she's a dumb slut
(01:04:56) ROzBeans: who treated you like shit
(01:04:58) kierythebetrayed: she called me and yelled and kept talking over me
(01:05:01) kierythebetrayed: and I'm immature
(01:05:01) ROzBeans: because you tried to be there for her
(01:05:10) ROzBeans: want me to beat her up?
(01:05:44) kierythebetrayed: she said I was asking for stuff back instead of just telling her I didn't want to hang out with her anymore, and that's what 10 year olds do
(01:05:52) kierythebetrayed: k
(01:05:55) ROzBeans: no, you want your shit back
(01:05:56) kierythebetrayed: give me my shit back
(01:05:58) kierythebetrayed: yeah
(01:05:59) ROzBeans: exactly
(01:06:16) ROzBeans: did you go off on her? thank her for using you as a fucking crutch?
(01:06:36) kierythebetrayed: no, she wouldn't let me talk so I hung up
(01:07:00) ROzBeans: so what now?
(01:07:30) kierythebetrayed: sent her another text message saying that I wanted something else back and she sent one back saying not to TM her again, to call her because TMs are immature.. I never sent a text message in my life before I started hanging out with her
(01:07:50) kierythebetrayed: and she said not to call her today because she's annoyed with me
(01:07:52) kierythebetrayed: ...
(01:07:57) ROzBeans: talk to her why? so she could yell at you more?
(01:07:57) kierythebetrayed: she's a cunt
(01:08:01) ROzBeans: yes, SHE IS
(01:08:06) kierythebetrayed: exactly what I said
(01:08:08) ROzBeans: i've always hated her. =(
(01:08:19) kierythebetrayed: well you are only hearing my side
(01:08:20) ROzBeans: i'm sorry it turned out that way
(01:08:26) ROzBeans: so, you're my friend. she's not
(01:08:29) ROzBeans: that's all that matters
(01:08:44) kierythebetrayed: I'm sure her side portrays me as an immature sycophantic train wreck
(01:08:53) ROzBeans: probably but her side doesn't look any better
(01:08:57) kierythebetrayed: because thats what happens when you try to be nice to someone
(01:09:54) kierythebetrayed: she sent my mom a card thanking her for letting her stay and telling her how great she is
(01:10:04) kierythebetrayed: she loves my mom
(01:10:10) ROzBeans: and how she fucked over her son?
(01:10:21) ROzBeans: i swear to god, if you make up with her, i will have a cow
(01:10:23) kierythebetrayed: actually, she's just like my mother.. has all her bad qualities and none of her good ones
(01:10:40) kierythebetrayed: we've never held hands.. we were never a couple in any way
(01:10:55) ROzBeans: so are you done with her?
(01:10:59) kierythebetrayed: so why do I have to go through this drama?
(01:11:12) kierythebetrayed: as soon as I get my shit back
(01:11:19) kierythebetrayed: I bought her an ipod for christmas
(01:11:27) ROzBeans: because you cared about her and she let you
(01:11:30) kierythebetrayed: but I wouldn't take that back because it was a gift
(01:11:31) ROzBeans: OH MY FUCKING GOD
(01:11:46) ROzBeans: steal it back!
(01:11:48) kierythebetrayed: nah
(01:11:50) kierythebetrayed: I don't care
(01:11:51) ROzBeans: maybe she'll just give it back
(01:11:59) kierythebetrayed: I won't take it
(01:12:20) kierythebetrayed: I just need to meet some decent women
(01:12:28) ROzBeans: without baggage or cancer
(01:12:40) kierythebetrayed: there are no women without baggage
(01:13:04) kierythebetrayed: I'm surprised I met one without 4 kids
(01:13:10) ROzBeans: this is true
(01:13:13) ROzBeans: =/ i'm sorry though
(01:13:24) kierythebetrayed: it's life
(01:13:25) kierythebetrayed: fuck it
(01:13:36) kierythebetrayed: I just better get my shit back
(01:13:43) ROzBeans: =x
(01:13:50) kierythebetrayed: or I'll start to get nasty and live up to the immature title
(01:14:08) ROzBeans: =/
(01:14:14) ROzBeans: just cut her loose
(01:14:15) kierythebetrayed: I should tell Gary that she fucked another guy after she broke up with him..
(01:14:22) kierythebetrayed: she doesn't want him to know
(01:14:26) ROzBeans: don't even bother, it doesn't sound like he cares
(01:14:32) kierythebetrayed: he would
(01:14:32) ROzBeans: he probably fucked her all week and then went back to the city
(01:14:51) kierythebetrayed: he freaked when he found an email she'd gotten from someone on match.com
(01:14:57) kierythebetrayed: this was in december
(01:15:03) ROzBeans: that would only hurt him
(01:15:05) kierythebetrayed: they've been "broken up" since february
(01:15:07) kierythebetrayed: fuck him
(01:15:12) ROzBeans: cut them both loose
(01:15:21) ROzBeans: turn your back on them and move on
(01:15:29) kierythebetrayed: I'm on the brink of wanting to cause as much damage as I can
(01:15:30) ROzBeans: the more you obsess the more psycho you will seem
(01:15:35) kierythebetrayed: that's always a fun place
(01:15:40) ROzBeans: lol
(01:16:03) ROzBeans: if she gets in your face, tell her she's a using cancer ridden bitch who didn't give a fuck about how he felt but just LOVED the attention
(01:16:15) ROzBeans: and if gary says anything, tell him to go back to doing nothing and being nothing
(01:16:28) ROzBeans: how you felt, rather
(01:17:01) kierythebetrayed: well we'll see how it goes
(01:17:31) kierythebetrayed: I could tell her father the guy across the street molested her when she was a kid so he'll kill him and go to jail.. she doesn't want him to know
(01:17:52) kierythebetrayed: she really should just give me my shit back
(01:17:56) kierythebetrayed: and kiss my ass
(01:18:12) ROzBeans: ack, k that's disturbing
(01:18:16) kierythebetrayed: then learn to keep her fucking mouth shut and her loyalties in the right place
(01:18:38) ROzBeans: just erase her number, dont even worrya bout your shit. it'll always be something tieing you to her
(01:18:59) kierythebetrayed: she likes to think she's some great psycho analyst type person.. because she counsels kids with learning disabilities
(01:19:16) kierythebetrayed: talks to me like I'm not smarter than her
(01:19:22) kierythebetrayed: fuck her
(01:19:46) kierythebetrayed: yeah maybe if you heard her side you wouldn't feel so bad about her. =)
(01:21:15) kierythebetrayed: I'm just venting
(01:21:28) kierythebetrayed: I'm all for having a civilized discussion with her
(01:22:06) ROzBeans: i wouldnt even bother
(01:22:12) kierythebetrayed: but talking down to me and calling me names is a sure fire way to see that it won't end well
(01:22:27) ROzBeans: yeah she sounds like a winner
(01:22:53) ROzBeans: one of those pretty girls who are sweet to your face, till you make them feel guilty about something and then they rage like a fucking psycho beast
(01:23:14) kierythebetrayed: yeah she's definitely got some of tha
(01:23:15) kierythebetrayed: t
(01:28:08) ROzBeans: blech
(01:28:19) ROzBeans: stiff upper lip and don't take that shit from her

fuck whores man ur talking to someone whos dealt with like 50 over the past few months

I'm going to hell for some of the stuff I said there. =x /hug drae

Move on man. I know that’s a lot easier said than done. Every man at some point in his life will go through something like this. We all find a lady that will use us up until they find exactly what they want. I married one of them. I have found 2 in my life and I would not give them a squirt of piss if they were on fire in hell.

The thing that I find the most evil though, in my case my ex used the best parts of my personality against me. Not to mention lying under oath and committing a felony.

I did have a girl like this though that I was crazy about. We never dated but she sure had no problem using my money, time, and affection when she needed it. I dropped that bitch like a bad habit even though I was head over heels for her. The funny thing is that the first week I was back in Atlanta I ran in to her. She is recently divorced and has a kid. She tried to snare me back in. She actually said “Omg I just had a dream about you the other night”. Yea about my money. I laughed out loud at her.

Anyway man get your shit back from her asap and GTFO. Erase her number, don’t take her calls or emails. If she shows up at your place, leave.

Best of luck to you!

Tyler

I've painted a far worse picture of her than she deserves... She and I were never a couple, she said from the very beginning that she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she was still very attached to her exboyfriend Gary, and that she wouldn't be ready to move on until she was done with cancer. She hasn't sprung any surprises on me. Most of that was just immature venting on my part..

No, Mae, I still haven't talked to her, but I don't think it's fair that everyone has such a bad opinion of her.

I don't care! She was still uncaring. She knew you cared about her more than just friends, yet she took your ipod and went with you to florida. She's somewhere with YOU and gives you a half assed 'oh happy new year' while she's calling his ass. It's still bullshit, any way you paint it.

I hate her. =p

yeah, you're right.. but she actually bought me a christmas present when I told her I didn't buy presents for anyone, before I bought her the ipod.. she's never used me for money.. we always spilt dinners and such.. she's not like that.

she's just an emotional void to me... not a money sink.

(21:49:51) ROzBeans: register at myspace.com immediately
(21:50:02) kierythebetrayed: no
(21:50:21) ROzBeans: try dating services? ask a random girl out?
(21:51:08) kierythebetrayed: wanna go out?
(21:51:14) kierythebetrayed: see? doesn't work.
(21:52:02) ROzBeans: a random single girl
(21:52:39) kierythebetrayed: put your daughter on line for a sec, I wanna ask her something

veb's going to kill me, I think... but it was funny at the time.

You left out the good stuff.

[17:53] ROzBeans: uh, no
[17:53] ROzBeans: she can't read yet anyway
[17:53] KieryTheBetrayed: perfect
[17:53] KieryTheBetrayed: heh
[17:53] KieryTheBetrayed: sorry
[17:54] ROzBeans: random single girl over 20
[17:54] ROzBeans: who can read
[17:54] KieryTheBetrayed: without kids or baggage?
[17:54] KieryTheBetrayed: she died last week.. the universe is fresh out

I am remarkably funny.

Well then I see I was totally wrong and I sincerely apologize, hon. I guess it just seems too weird to me that anyone would not like you, because I think you're a great person with a great sense of humor. You're gorgeous and brilliant and from the way you talk when you're not posting insults on the Internet, you're also very empathetic and sweet, so imo, she is missing out on a hell of a lot more than you are.

Hugs.

...ok