I've only managed to level to 63. But my guild is beyond casual and it works for me since I don't want to do any hardcore raiding. Maybe you can find a guild on your server that fits your needs.
Hope it works out

Hey all,
I need a place to vent and hope you all dont mind me doing so here. LB (hubby's nickname which stands for Litchebane) and I are pretty dissatisfied with The Burning Crusade. We went from plowing through BWL to a month off to level to 10 man "perfect" Kharazan to nothing.
When Angel was here we did not try to raid. She was more important to spend time with, plus LB went to SC to golf for the weekend. The week after that was spent getting ready for our Vegas trip. So we come home, log on this week on Thursday (after getting caught up on life) and the raid guild that was already suffering from people leaving has been dealt another blow. Many officers now left, the raid leader is "burnt out" and most of our good friends are scattered on the winds.
Now, we dont have the kind of time to devote to a hardcore guild. I like to dink around in Second Life and on Argent Dawn server with the Mikapedia and LB will be golfing excessively soon as the weather warms up. But we dont know what to do. Do we transfer servers? Try to find a new guild? Stick with this one as it tries to rebuild? Try Vanguard? Start watching crappy evening TV?
It is beyond frustrating at the moment. I am not sure just what to do.
LFHome 70 Troll Shadow Priest & 70 Tauren Shaman!
this is mhy i love EQ2 - not to mention my guild!! for most things i can solo and for the rest i can always find a group (in or out of the guild) to take care of the stuff i just can't do by myself. there are things that require larger groups, but you don't have to do those. fun to stand around and watch though!!
as for the guild situation - ours is very laid back and if smoeone disappeaers for awhile you don't get hassled for having done so. you get welcomed back and they missed YOU. not your charrie or your charries abilities - but you. i've been in a fraction of my usual lately and its been neat to see what i missed while i ws gone... though i'm never gonna catch up to the Darkblaydes at this rate!!!
i quit TBC after 2 months. I got my rogue and priest ot lvl 70 within the first 2 weeks of it being released. then proceeded to grind the everlivin fuck out of my reps to get revered keys ( exalted mount and such with kurenai too )
http://armory.worldofwarcraft.com/character-sheet.xml?r=Azuremyst&n=Jadian - rogue
http://armory.worldofwarcraft.com/character-sheet.xml?r=Azuremyst&n=Satina - priest
i worked hard, and still didnt get anywhere. The rep grind is so fucking monotonous and nauseating.
Thats my war. And at first i agreed with you on the rep grins Vex. But then i just started running heriocs daily and maxed almost all of my reps out.The sheer amount of rep you gain for doing any of the heriocs makes it easy.