I don't know if this will help, but I found, http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0812922468/qid=1136240634/sr=1-4/ref=sr_1_4/103-6919822-0794243?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
I also found http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0805037802/qid=1136240806/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-6919822-0794243?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
And
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0764565168/qid=1136240806/sr=1-3/ref=sr_1_3/103-6919822-0794243?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
Hope those can help hon. *huggles*
awol mia
hello everyonw,
i've got a chance to use a computer so i wanted to say i'll be around in the future hopefully not to far of a future.
I appologize for missing out on the mafia and havin to be killed off. I was really excited for it. Lifes turn of events have been hideous to say the least. I found out i was pregnant a few weeks ago and then the babies father decided he no longer 'loves' me and has decided to kick me out of our 3 bedroom house. So now i'm tryin to find somewhere to live plus being sick with baby =( i hit 7 weeks and the baby said TIME TO BE SICK! but i'm 9 weeks now and soon i'll find somewhere to live and get my computer formated and then internet. I dont know how long i'll be but i'll be tryin to come back fast. Most days i just sleep but meh. I take mediciation for anxiety and depression and ive been comming off those as well to add to all the chaos.
this snowglobe of life sucks and i dont like gods plan so far but every dark cloud has to have a silver lining right? If i can just get him to stop shaking my snowglobe i'll be happy =)
my biggest fear is that i'll get a place and then get sick or put on bedrest and then i'll be royally screwed. we'll see.
Merry christmas to you all and god bless.
Dia/Dyan/Mushizo
Sarah
20 years ago
Calimaryn
20 years ago
Sorry to hear of this, but I am happy that its looking better and better. My only comment is take care of you and baby.
Good luck hon!
Good luck hon!
Gilae
20 years ago
www.babycenter.com has forums and chat rooms for pregnant women of ALL variety...including single moms. I've gone there a few times when I've been feeling like nobody in the universe "gets it". And don't think just because all this is going on that that is the only reason why you're feeling the way you do...your hormones are going insane at the moment and all of this just isn't helping. Unfortunately it will get worse so I would find some family to rely on and lean on if you can. Don't depend on some guy to be your emotional crutch because they don't get what you're going through...even the well meaning ones and believe me my husband is a wonderful guy who has really tried...and sadly, neither will your friends who have never been pregnant. I daily have a conversation with one of my girlfriends that goes like this:
Me: Man, I'm so tired. I didn't get any sleep last night.
Friend: Oh, I know what you mean! I didn't want to get out of bed this morning!
Me: (crankily to self) Bitch! You have no idea what I mean! You don't know from tired! YOU didn't have to pee 10 times in the night nor have to struggle to roll over nor have nightmares about people trying to cut you open to steal your baby nor have something hiccuping in your gut!
Don't get me wrong, they will certainly try to be supportive and some days that will be nice but there's nothing in their imaginings that is like actually being pregnant...most of them think pregnancy only lasts 9 months! I've learned over the past few months that other pregnant women or recently pregnant women are your best source of comfort and assurance. Being pregnant is the weirdest and scariest thing that I've done so far in life. Every day brings some sort of new weirdness and anxiety. The idea of doing it alone scares the shit out of me...so don't try! Find some support chica :) OH and buy the Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy. It will make you laugh and it will make you go "OH...that IS normal then!"
Also, be careful about alienating the baby's father...it may just be that he's too immature to handle the scare of pregnancy. But your child may need him in his/her life and you don't want to end up using the baby to hurt him because that wouldn't be in your child's best interests. What's more, if you're too antaganistic he could end up being one of those types of dudes who only wants to be part of the child's life to piss you off. Roz's advice is best. Give him the big "whatever". If he's around fine, if he's not, fine.
My 2 cents!
Me: Man, I'm so tired. I didn't get any sleep last night.
Friend: Oh, I know what you mean! I didn't want to get out of bed this morning!
Me: (crankily to self) Bitch! You have no idea what I mean! You don't know from tired! YOU didn't have to pee 10 times in the night nor have to struggle to roll over nor have nightmares about people trying to cut you open to steal your baby nor have something hiccuping in your gut!
Don't get me wrong, they will certainly try to be supportive and some days that will be nice but there's nothing in their imaginings that is like actually being pregnant...most of them think pregnancy only lasts 9 months! I've learned over the past few months that other pregnant women or recently pregnant women are your best source of comfort and assurance. Being pregnant is the weirdest and scariest thing that I've done so far in life. Every day brings some sort of new weirdness and anxiety. The idea of doing it alone scares the shit out of me...so don't try! Find some support chica :) OH and buy the Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy. It will make you laugh and it will make you go "OH...that IS normal then!"
Also, be careful about alienating the baby's father...it may just be that he's too immature to handle the scare of pregnancy. But your child may need him in his/her life and you don't want to end up using the baby to hurt him because that wouldn't be in your child's best interests. What's more, if you're too antaganistic he could end up being one of those types of dudes who only wants to be part of the child's life to piss you off. Roz's advice is best. Give him the big "whatever". If he's around fine, if he's not, fine.
My 2 cents!
Guest
20 years ago
haha I remember those convos with my fiance. And then nearly rip out his nuts for asking if I cleaned the kitchen although I spent most of the day trying not to vomit.
Gilae
Me: Man, I'm so tired. I didn't get any sleep last night.
Friend: Oh, I know what you mean! I didn't want to get out of bed this morning!
Me: (crankily to self) Bitch! You have no idea what I mean! You don't know from tired! YOU didn't have to pee 10 times in the night nor have to struggle to roll over nor have nightmares about people trying to cut you open to steal your baby nor have something hiccuping in your gut!
haha I remember those convos with my fiance. And then nearly rip out his nuts for asking if I cleaned the kitchen although I spent most of the day trying not to vomit.
Dia
20 years ago
She looks great starry thank you very much!
I told the dad tha i wouldnt need to tell the kid bad things about him because he'd figure it out on his quickly enough. =) Now out of nowhere he's suddenly being nice to me. He actually hugged me and wouldnt let go then started to cry . how fn confusing.
we are on speaking terms but hes letting me keep the house now so thats good ^-^
thanks for all the link see ya soon internet incomming
I told the dad tha i wouldnt need to tell the kid bad things about him because he'd figure it out on his quickly enough. =) Now out of nowhere he's suddenly being nice to me. He actually hugged me and wouldnt let go then started to cry . how fn confusing.
we are on speaking terms but hes letting me keep the house now so thats good ^-^
thanks for all the link see ya soon internet incomming
ROzbeans
20 years ago
Obviously he's scared as hell in being a father, what guy wouldn't? At least it seems like he's accepting he lost a good thing with you. Maybe it'll work out Dia.
Gilae
20 years ago
Men, even married men, have a very difficult time with the whole baby thing.
Dia
20 years ago
dude, ive noticed. i suspect that even if your planning for it they still freak out.
oh part 1 million in the story. i got fired last week from my job, well forced to quit or be fired type of thing. why? apparently doctor notes dont mean shit in a hospital. sick, medical condition or not, i missed 3 days in a row and went home a few nights early due to puking and sleeping on toilets.
would figure though, now that my morning sickness has left the building and i'm no longer an anxiety depressed pile of goo i get canned. At least they waited till after the holidays. /shrug.
i wasnt too upset, i knew they would try something like this, i just didnt know they could. HR told me doctors notes dont count unless youve worked there for a year. OH. NEAT.
only one way to go from the bottom is up right? I told the dad and i said i might go on medicaid just incase until i can get reemployed and he got mad. 'i dont want you on state aid'
WTB male translation manual.
luckily i have a decent babysitting job(there now!Nap times 4tw) currently thats helping it isnt enough like a real job but it will get me by until i get rehired. I did get to save face by quitting rather than fired. My cousin is moving in with me so everything will be halfed and he's agreed to change the cat litter. That will help alot. Thats how i'm getting the internet again lol. He wants cable & internet so that works out and i dont feel guilty.
Im eager to goto the site you listed Gilae just so i can find more resources and other prego's too. Tomorrow i go to hear the babies heart beat and i am so excited to find out the fetal heart rate. I'm already convinced it's going to be a girl and ive told people i know because the baby told me so. I'm hoping my intuition matches what the heartbeat and then later the picture of gentials. Else i've been calling my son Jillian and for a month now. lol. The 18 month old i baby sit tried to feed my belly button gold fish crackers today when i told him baby and pointed to my belly. that was the most adorable thing ever. he poked at me and said hi for another 10 minutes after.
Gilae, lets go into the preggo porn bussiness k? we could call it TWIST and have a ice cream cone with chocolate and vanillia twist flavor as the mascot. Then twist could date Ike from here and they could have their own day time drama called the Bold and the Meltiful. 0.o
time for me and sw33t ideas to go upstairs and get snacks ready.
miss you all, and all your tips and words have been appreciated and used.
oh part 1 million in the story. i got fired last week from my job, well forced to quit or be fired type of thing. why? apparently doctor notes dont mean shit in a hospital. sick, medical condition or not, i missed 3 days in a row and went home a few nights early due to puking and sleeping on toilets.
would figure though, now that my morning sickness has left the building and i'm no longer an anxiety depressed pile of goo i get canned. At least they waited till after the holidays. /shrug.
i wasnt too upset, i knew they would try something like this, i just didnt know they could. HR told me doctors notes dont count unless youve worked there for a year. OH. NEAT.
only one way to go from the bottom is up right? I told the dad and i said i might go on medicaid just incase until i can get reemployed and he got mad. 'i dont want you on state aid'
WTB male translation manual.
luckily i have a decent babysitting job(there now!Nap times 4tw) currently thats helping it isnt enough like a real job but it will get me by until i get rehired. I did get to save face by quitting rather than fired. My cousin is moving in with me so everything will be halfed and he's agreed to change the cat litter. That will help alot. Thats how i'm getting the internet again lol. He wants cable & internet so that works out and i dont feel guilty.
Im eager to goto the site you listed Gilae just so i can find more resources and other prego's too. Tomorrow i go to hear the babies heart beat and i am so excited to find out the fetal heart rate. I'm already convinced it's going to be a girl and ive told people i know because the baby told me so. I'm hoping my intuition matches what the heartbeat and then later the picture of gentials. Else i've been calling my son Jillian and for a month now. lol. The 18 month old i baby sit tried to feed my belly button gold fish crackers today when i told him baby and pointed to my belly. that was the most adorable thing ever. he poked at me and said hi for another 10 minutes after.
Gilae, lets go into the preggo porn bussiness k? we could call it TWIST and have a ice cream cone with chocolate and vanillia twist flavor as the mascot. Then twist could date Ike from here and they could have their own day time drama called the Bold and the Meltiful. 0.o
time for me and sw33t ideas to go upstairs and get snacks ready.
miss you all, and all your tips and words have been appreciated and used.
Guest
20 years ago
Guys are teh weird.
/fuggles
/fuggles
Gilae
20 years ago
My husband did. I told him I was pregnant and his face went pale and I could see the panic in his eyes. And then he said "but...we have so many things going on right now". It took him a couple days to adjust to the idea and now he couldn't be happier. And yeah...it was planned. There will be plenty of panicing on your part later on down the road. I had an anxiety attack the other day about teaching a kid how to tie his shoes and the eventuality that I will be making thousands of peanut butter sandwiches in the not so distant future.
That website I pointed you too is a good place to post that you're looking to nanny from home. You can make a decent money doing that. Here in Chicago you can make anywhere from $120-$200 per week per child. Multiply that by 4 and you've got yourself a salary.
As to pregnant porn sites...well I'd help you out but I'm REALLY hoping that this child exits my body in the next few days so we better start snapping pictures soon! There apparently is a ton of men who have pregnant women fetishes...I'm reminded about this by my EQ friend Glug/Unique every time I say "nobody wants to see a naked pregnant woman". Ah the internet. Is there anything it can't do?
i suspect that even if your planning for it they still freak out.
My husband did. I told him I was pregnant and his face went pale and I could see the panic in his eyes. And then he said "but...we have so many things going on right now". It took him a couple days to adjust to the idea and now he couldn't be happier. And yeah...it was planned. There will be plenty of panicing on your part later on down the road. I had an anxiety attack the other day about teaching a kid how to tie his shoes and the eventuality that I will be making thousands of peanut butter sandwiches in the not so distant future.
That website I pointed you too is a good place to post that you're looking to nanny from home. You can make a decent money doing that. Here in Chicago you can make anywhere from $120-$200 per week per child. Multiply that by 4 and you've got yourself a salary.
As to pregnant porn sites...well I'd help you out but I'm REALLY hoping that this child exits my body in the next few days so we better start snapping pictures soon! There apparently is a ton of men who have pregnant women fetishes...I'm reminded about this by my EQ friend Glug/Unique every time I say "nobody wants to see a naked pregnant woman". Ah the internet. Is there anything it can't do?