The time has come....

Try to go with her favorite flowers over roses. Roses are so trite and overdone.

I love orchids.

I love orchids.

Casablanca lilys for the win!

Casablanca lilys for the win!

A nice romantic demon drop should really strum those heart strings.

A nice romantic demon drop should really strum those heart strings.

SO not true. Romance is being on a balcony overlooking the city. Nothing prettier than the city at night with all the lights sparkling.

And there are less bugs.


(My office building is over to the left side/middle of this picture...to the far left of that bright light in the middle)

SO not true. Romance is being on a balcony overlooking the city. Nothing prettier than the city at night with all the lights sparkling.

And there are less bugs.


(My office building is over to the left side/middle of this picture...to the far left of that bright light in the middle)

As far as romantic asking and such goes... I wouldn't know. My ex wasn't romantic.

Gilae is right about the changing and growing that goes on. I was 18 when I met Mike and by 24 we seemed to have nothing in common. We waited 2 years before we got married though, I change slowly, I guess. On the other hand, Mike was 10 1/2 years older than me so he had already done his growing and changing. In fact, he was quite proud of not changing his habits over the years. I think in some ways that is more difficult than two younger people who can grow and change together.

However, we did not fight about money or finances at all. We kept seperate accounts and Mike took care of the bills because that was what he was good at. I asked how much he needed and paid him every month. No worries on my part and it was flexible, plus, we each knew exactly how much money was in our own account at all times without worrying if the other had just spent money on something that would cause your purchase to bounce. Back in the day, we were broke college students so being at that near zero cash line was common with just my own spending to worry about much less someone else's..

My boss at the novelty store I worked at thought it was hysterical that I paid my husband but it worked well for us.

As far as romantic asking and such goes... I wouldn't know. My ex wasn't romantic.

Gilae is right about the changing and growing that goes on. I was 18 when I met Mike and by 24 we seemed to have nothing in common. We waited 2 years before we got married though, I change slowly, I guess. On the other hand, Mike was 10 1/2 years older than me so he had already done his growing and changing. In fact, he was quite proud of not changing his habits over the years. I think in some ways that is more difficult than two younger people who can grow and change together.

However, we did not fight about money or finances at all. We kept seperate accounts and Mike took care of the bills because that was what he was good at. I asked how much he needed and paid him every month. No worries on my part and it was flexible, plus, we each knew exactly how much money was in our own account at all times without worrying if the other had just spent money on something that would cause your purchase to bounce. Back in the day, we were broke college students so being at that near zero cash line was common with just my own spending to worry about much less someone else's..

My boss at the novelty store I worked at thought it was hysterical that I paid my husband but it worked well for us.

I disagree with your WRONG opinon Gilae!

I disagree with your WRONG opinon Gilae!

YOU ARE!

YOU ARE!

ooo whats that flashing brownie club!!


i want in!

ooo whats that flashing brownie club!!


i want in!

Did you do it yet????

Did you do it yet????

He's waiting for marriage.