The time has come....

Please post here suggestions for romantic ways for me to ask my girlfriend to marry me. We have discussed it and the answer is a forgone conclusion, but I want to make sure I do it like a pimp, so she shall never forget.

I have an idea or two, but I want to see what you guys come up with first.

ROzbeans 18 years ago
Whatever you do, it must involve pie.
Mizen 18 years ago
Pie rocks.
Mirabela 18 years ago
tell us about her some =D / does she like lots of people at once / privacy / mushy / so on and so forth
Mirabela 18 years ago
ok here is a mushy idea....

romantic evening, fancy dinner, dressed up, make her think like your gonna pop the question at a fancy restaurant like they show in movies .... but dont do it there ( thats lame and overdone)...

after dinner

take her on a walk

now preset some check points and at each check point have something there for her

first one could be a red rose

followed by something else maybe another rose

and another

then throw something in wrapped up, like in a cloth bag with a ribbon she has to open inside the bag have a rock

i would say five or six check points and each time you take her to one and she gets her flower or whatever tell her amazing stuffs

last check point a yellow rose to symbolize friendship (like in gilae's post)


then tell her how you want to share your life with her, and how you are asking her to take the journey with you, there will be lots of love, there will be hard times. and most important always sealed with friendship, then pop out the ring get down on one knee and ask her humbly and dearly to be your wife.
Mirabela 18 years ago
yeah i know your gonna have to find a way to place these things out before the dinner or maybe have a firend while you are eating dinner, but i figure if you like this idea you can always find a way to make it work

oh at the dinner for desert have pie! =D
Carly 18 years ago
Congrats Mizen, sorry I can't think of anything at the moment.

P.S. Please point all suggestions Bruuce's way. kthx :<3
Mizen 18 years ago
Well I do have connections to do it onstage at the Kanye West concert here in town in a couple of weeks, but I know if I did it in front of 15,000 people, she would kill me.
Droggen 18 years ago
wish i could help shannon but my last encounter with w female left me all hatefull. damn slutty people now days
Sarah 18 years ago
Aw, that's great Mizen!

I didn't get proposed to...but if I had I could hope it would have been something sweet and romantic.

You could take her to the place where you had your first date and ask her there with your song playing. Corny, but sweet.
Carly 18 years ago
Kaytana
Aw, that's great Mizen!

I didn't get proposed to...but if I had I could hope it would have been something sweet and romantic.

You could take her to the place where you had your first date and ask her there with your song playing. Corny, but sweet.


I think that's too corny. You need to do something crazier. You should be mean to her all day and have her all confused, or maybe not haha.
Gilae 18 years ago
http://www.firstdance.com/mp2.htm

I've always thought anything that involved a sign in an unexpected place was cool. Like the whole airplane writing in the sky business. But it's really dependant on her and what you guys do together.

Grats Mizen on making the big step!!
Temprah 18 years ago
I don't know how funds are.. but if you can then go for a limo. Don't have it take you out to eat cause while you're inside eating you pay it to sit unused.. think smarter! Now, if your anniversary isn't soon enough then pick that day of the month, add up how many months (or even weeks) it's been and decide to celebrate that particular anniversary.. Tell her you will have a dress up at home kind of dinner, and go all out with candles, romantic music, take out fancy food on nice plates (if you aren't comfortable cooking) and a bottle of wine.. time it all out so that when you're done eating dinner there's a knock at the door and it's a limo driver. Hey.. you're both already dressed up! Have some roses and more wine / liquor waiting in the limo and have it take you two for a leisurely drive around town. Spend that time talking about your future and what you two want from it, be wild with fantasies and goofy but serious..

Eventually you've arrived at some place beautiful, maybe the beach or a nice spot overlooking downtown lights. Or somplace significant to both of you, like where you met or such. You've got to do it.. so drop to one knee.. and ask her there. Then drive around some more and 'celebrate' in the limo
Mizen 18 years ago
Hmm....

that one actually sounds cool.
Aramous 18 years ago
Mizen
Well I do have connections to do it onstage at the Kanye West concert here in town in a couple of weeks, but I know if I did it in front of 15,000 people, she would kill me.


BINGO !!!!!

best way to do this.
trust me if she feels anything the way you feel, this will not be an issue. If I had connections like that I would. Way I did it was rented a limo, took her to the resteraunt in the sky in NYC that rotated, knelt down in the resteraunt and did it. Only complaint I got was the resteraunt was moving while we ate and did not sit well in her stomach
Sergon 18 years ago
Hmm Mizen how old are you? and how long have you 2 been dating? Just dont rush in to anything on pure emotion. Trust me I know from experience. You have your whole life ahead of you and if she wants to share it with you she will wait.

S
Sergon 18 years ago
Oh and I proposed to my Exwife on the stage of an improv theater. My friends owned it and they had the cast pull me up on stage during a skit. She nearly F*cked me in the theater after.

S
ROzbeans 18 years ago
Nearly? Obviously this was before you developed your legendary mac, The concert one sounds cool, Mizen - I think she'd dig that one.
Mizen 18 years ago
I am 27, she is 20. We've been dating for eight months, almost nine now. We both feel this is the natural thing to do, the only thing is me figuring out when and how.
Gilae 18 years ago
Nine months isn't very long...but I guess I would've married Mike after nine months and we waited 4 years and the outcome was the same. Sergon is right though Mizen...be sure that you're sure. Marriage is serious business.
Temprah 18 years ago
Age has nothing to do with it, or time. It's about how you feel and if you're ready for the commitment. I was dating X for less than... 3, maybe 4 months when he proposed. I was 18 and he was 17. Almost 14 years later now.. yeah it's HARD and you just have to be comitted and you will be able to work thorugh stuff.

If she's a fan of the group, take her and go for it at the concert. Just pimp it up some with either a limo (if you'll be drinking) or just rent a really nice car even, something super memorable and special.. But if she's shy or embarassed in public easily I'd be careful about pulling her up in front of all those people.. you want her to remember it not be so embarassed she's freaking. (like I would)